What is your worst fear about someone you love?

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sun Mar 27, 2022 6:01 pm

Let's talk. You're in love with someone but there is something you are afraid of about that person. What's it?

It doesn't have to be romantic relationship. For me, my fear is losing my Aunt. She is just the only one I've got left.

So tell me yours.

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Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sun Mar 27, 2022 6:42 pm

I hope this post gets more than enough comments. If not, I will start mentioning names.

Unread post by **David** » Sun Mar 27, 2022 7:53 pm

Mine is the fear of my crush getting married, or engaged before getting the time to talk. And then there is the fear of getting a no, which naturally could come as response.

Now you can imagine how my heart beats at every beat! But the beats of the first inflicts more fear than that of the second.

My head has been paining me for past 3 nights. Except it is to ask for my account number to send in money to get drugs, no one should quote or mention me, please!!

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sun Mar 27, 2022 9:06 pm

Normally, it would have been me saying u should talk things with her, or drop hints. But then u said her response would naturally be negative.

I am confused, why wait on when you can get yourself a new crush?

@David I really have to mention you even though I'm sending no money.

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sun Mar 27, 2022 9:13 pm

So I be mentioning names here.

@LykMinds @Abra777 @MummytripleK @Maame Anzeba @Michohay2000 @Ethereal4eva @Ehikowecho @Tayo @Akinsola Mary @Afolabi lolade mary @Aminu Mukhtar Mafara @Levi @Loko @Yames @Rukayat @Rayolat @Rachael Jerry Tiga @Shanel

I am tired!

Don't open this topic without dropping a comment

Unread post by **admin** » Mon Mar 28, 2022 7:26 am

The bulk of those names haven't been here in a while

Unread post by **Felicia** » Mon Mar 28, 2022 4:51 pm

There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives out fear. (1 john 4:18.)

But yet I still have a lot of fears. Does it mean it is not perfect? I believe until we can read and see the mind of others and see what they truly think, there will always be fears.

My worst fear when loving a man is his fear of commitment. I am always afraid of surrendering control too quickly and placing my heart into hands that won't know how to hold it.

When I finally surrender control to him, I want to look back in a few years time and say “ wow, thank God I didn't let fear cheat me out of one of the best things in life”

Unread post by **Whitrock** » Tue Mar 29, 2022 9:56 pm

admin wrote: ↑Mon Mar 28, 2022 7:26 am The bulk of those names haven't been here in a while

I'm sad you did not mention me @Nakupendah. And you mentioned those that we don't know here

because of that, I will not comment

Unread post by **David** » Sat Apr 02, 2022 1:19 pm

Nakupendah wrote: ↑Sun Mar 27, 2022 9:06 pm Normally, it would have been me saying u should talk things with her, or drop hints. But then u said her response would naturally be negative.

I am confused, why wait on when you can get yourself a new crush?

@David I really have to mention you even though I'm sending no money.

If that's easy, I would have gotten another. Don't you think? But things don't work that way with me. My emotions have own principles. Their own rules of engagement, if you will sayy!

Unread post by **David** » Sat Apr 02, 2022 1:24 pm

Felicia wrote: ↑Mon Mar 28, 2022 4:51 pm
My worst fear when loving a man is his fear of commitment. I am always afraid of surrendering control too quickly and placing my heart into hands that won't know how to hold it.

That question of you being in commitment and the other party cheating away. I share that fear, too. All the more reasons LDRs is not in my fancies

Unread post by **David** » Sat Apr 02, 2022 1:27 pm

@Nakupendah what do you mean by your aunt is all got left?

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sat Apr 02, 2022 5:10 pm

David wrote: ↑Sat Apr 02, 2022 1:27 pm @Nakupendah what do you mean by your aunt is all got left?

Just what it means.

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sat Apr 02, 2022 5:16 pm

Whitrock wrote: ↑Tue Mar 29, 2022 9:56 pm

I'm sad you did not mention me @Nakupendah. And you mentioned those that we don't know here because of that, I will not comment

Come on now.I know you are not a cry baby!! @Whitrock i ve mentioned you, so drop some cooments

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sat Apr 02, 2022 5:20 pm

David wrote: ↑Sat Apr 02, 2022 1:19 pm
Nakupendah wrote: ↑Sun Mar 27, 2022 9:06 pm
If that's easy, I would have gotten another. Don't you think? But things don't work that way with me. My emotions have own principles. Their own rules of engagement, if you will sayy!
Why am I thinking you're a weirdo? It sounds crazy! Emotions having rules of engagement.. Is she someone close?

Unread post by **David** » Sun Apr 03, 2022 7:48 pm

@Nakupendah I'm a weirdo. That's true. I bet its going to be more draining finding some other crush. So let me just keep crushing.

Unread post by **Whitrock** » Fri Apr 15, 2022 4:37 pm

Nakupendah wrote: ↑Sat Apr 02, 2022 5:16 pm @Whitrock i ve mentioned you, so drop some cooments

Let me think

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Sat Apr 16, 2022 4:53 pm

@Whitrock don't tell me that's all you have to say

Unread post by **Whitrock** » Wed May 11, 2022 4:29 pm

Nakupendah wrote: ↑Sat Apr 16, 2022 4:53 pm @Whitrock don't tell me that's all you have to say

That's not all. Let me try and recall

Spike · Unread post by **Spike** » Sun Jun 12, 2022 1:51 pm

I just recently discovered that the wife I married 10 years ago has a son before we met, and she had be hiding it from me all this years. I just discovered and I now find it hard to trust her again.

This has always been my worst fear. Which I told her during courtship. That I will one day have a reason not to trust her.

Unread post by **admin** » Wed Jun 15, 2022 1:54 pm

Spike wrote: ↑Sun Jun 12, 2022 1:51 pm I just recently discovered that the wife I married 10 years ago has a son before we met, and she had be hiding it from me all this years. I just discovered and I now find it hard to trust her again.

This has always been my worst fear. Which I told her during courtship. That I will one day have a reason not to trust her.

News like this makes me keep having a rethink about taking a step into marriage

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Mon Aug 08, 2022 5:10 pm

Spike wrote: ↑Sun Jun 12, 2022 1:51 pm I just recently discovered that the wife I married 10 years ago has a son before we met, and she had be hiding it from me all this years. I just discovered and I now find it hard to trust her again.

This has always been my worst fear. Which I told her during courtship. That I will one day have a reason not to trust her.

My gender misbehaves at times. I just can imagine how broken you are right now. Care to share how her secret leaked?

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Mon Aug 08, 2022 5:12 pm

admin wrote: ↑Wed Jun 15, 2022 1:54 pm
Spike wrote: ↑Sun Jun 12, 2022 1:51 pm I just recently discovered that the wife I married 10 years ago has a son before we met, and she had be hiding it from me all this years. I just discovered and I now find it hard to trust her again.

This has always been my worst fear. Which I told her during courtship. That I will one day have a reason not to trust her.
News like this makes me keep having a rethink about taking a step into marriage

Men do worst @admin . And the woman can't do shit but just grumble. For every one woman cheating there is ten man out there.

Unread post by **Homachi** » Fri Sep 02, 2022 5:44 pm

Spike wrote: ↑Sun Jun 12, 2022 1:51 pm I just recently discovered that the wife I married 10 years ago has a son before we met, and she had be hiding it from me all this years. I just discovered and I now find it hard to trust her again.

This has always been my worst fear. Which I told her during courtship. That I will one day have a reason not to trust her.

Sad. We're you able to reconcile?

Unread post by **Homachi** » Fri Sep 02, 2022 5:45 pm

Nakupendah wrote: ↑Sun Mar 27, 2022 9:13 pm So I be mentioning names here.

@LykMinds @Abra777 @MummytripleK @Maame Anzeba @Michohay2000 @Ethereal4eva @Ehikowecho @Tayo @Akinsola Mary @Afolabi lolade mary @Aminu Mukhtar Mafara @Levi @Loko @Yames @Rukayat @Rayolat @Rachael Jerry Tiga @Shanel

I am tired! Don't open this topic without dropping a comment

None of them even bothered to say hello!!!!! And why did you not mention me? We are going to quarrel now

Unread post by **Nakupendah** » Tue Nov 29, 2022 10:41 pm

Homachi wrote: ↑Fri Sep 02, 2022 5:45 pm
Nakupendah wrote: ↑Sun Mar 27, 2022 9:13 pm So I be mentioning names here.

@LykMinds @Abra777 @MummytripleK @Maame Anzeba @Michohay2000 @Ethereal4eva @Ehikowecho @Tayo @Akinsola Mary @Afolabi lolade mary @Aminu Mukhtar Mafara @Levi @Loko @Yames @Rukayat @Rayolat @Rachael Jerry Tiga @Shanel

I am tired! Don't open this topic without dropping a comment
None of them even bothered to say hello!!!!! And why did you not mention me? We are going to quarrel now

My bad! You can still say something

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