Who's a good girl?

[admin]

As the question subject says, who's a good girl? How do you define one?

[Homachi]

Maybe you can start by telling us why you are asking. Did a girl you secretly admire tell you she is a good girl, and you are guessing what that means?

Why the question? I'm thinking we should start from there

[AdeFemi]

Maybe you can start by telling us why you are asking. Did a girl you secretly admire tell you she is a girl, and you are guessing what that means?

Why the question? I'm thinking we should start from there

Seconded. @admin don't keep us waiting

[Whitrock]

Good Girls Are Bad Girls That Have Never Been Caught.

The so called good girls have this unrealistic self worth. While others think so highly of themselves and are anti-social.

Some so called good girls get angry or violent when guys asks them out.

Some so called good girls are mostly unreasonable even when in relationships

Some so called good girls contribute nothing in relationships and always have this sense of entitlement, after all they are "good girls"

Some " good girls" are not really good girls. That you think you are a good girl does not necessarily make you one. That you are not promiscuous does not mean you are a good girl. A lot of your so called good girls have meanness and unforgiving spirits in their hearts.

[Koffi]

it looks like you are a good guy. But I must tell you that good guys rarely attract good girls. In fact, reverse is the case. good girls trip for bad guys, that's why the few good girls left get adulterated by the "bad guys". It's very real that good guys don't get attention.

From personal experience I suffered the worst heartbreak when i use to the "good humble boy" and I enjoyed my relationship when i never cared much.

Good girls are f**king hard to find, Getting a good girl is like searching for a needle in the middle of the desert. It's a dice throw!

[admin]

Maybe you can start by telling us why you are asking. Did a girl you secretly admire tell you she is a good girl, and you are guessing what that means?

Why the question? I'm thinking we should start from there

Someone told me that, true. But that doesn't mean I admire her or whatever it is you mean by that word.

[admin]

it looks like you are a good guy. But I must tell you that good guys rarely attract good girls. In fact, reverse is the case. good girls trip for bad guys, that's why the few good girls left get adulterated by the "bad guys". It's very real that good guys don't get attention.

From personal experience I suffered the worst heartbreak when i use to the "good humble boy" and I enjoyed my relationship when i never cared much.

Good girls are f**king hard to find, Getting a good girl is like searching for a needle in the middle of the desert. It's a dice throw!

Do you mind sharing your experience? I would appreciate that.

[admin]

@Whitrock I'm wowed by your first line. But caught doing what?

[AdeFemi]

Someone told me that, true. But that doesn't mean I admire her or whatever it is you mean by that word.

You know this is a lie. That you're asking this question means you admire the girl - whoever she is. If not, you won't have been thinking about what she said, as she must have said it just once. There is no way on earth a girl would have told you that more than once.

So @Homachi is right. You secretly admire that girl. She has been occupying your thought. And you are asking because you are afraid of falling in love, and later find out she is not the good girl she claim to be.

Acknowledge the truth. And quit lying.

[Qin]

Nothing like good girl /bad girl. . They are the same thing. The so called good girls (if there is anything like that ) just like keeping to them selves. Watch them when they are alone or when they meet that very person they are comfortable with, you would be surprised. BTW, if only some parents know what their 'good girl' does at school

[femokan]

There is no good or bad girl. everything lies in your own definition of good girl. it is also worthy to note that opportunity makes the thief. A thief that has not got an opportunity to steal will consider himself a honest man. human also have 2 faces. their real face and how they want to be seen. A good Girl in California can be mistaken for a slut in Islamabad, hence environment too has a role to play in defining people.

[admin]

You know this is a lie. That you're asking this question means you admire the girl - whoever she is. If not, you won't have been thinking about what she said, as she must have said it just once. There is no way on earth a girl would have told you that more than once.

So @Homachi is right. You secretly admire that girl. She has been occupying your thought. And you are asking because you are afraid of falling in love, and later find out she is not the good girl she claim to be.

Acknowledge the truth. And quit lying.

You are only making assumptions here. @bolded, what if the opposite is the reality? What other assumption are going to make?

[admin]

There is no good or bad girl. everything lies in your own definition of good girl. it is also worthy to note that opportunity makes the thief. A thief that has not got an opportunity to steal will consider himself a honest man. human also have 2 faces. their real face and how they want to be seen. A good Girl in California can be mistaken for a slut in Islamabad, hence environment too has a role to play in defining people.

Thank you. In other words, a good girl is a good girl only because she has not gotten the opportunity to be a bad girl?

[admin]

Nothing like good girl /bad girl. . They are the same thing. The so called good girls (if there is anything like that ) just like keeping to them selves. Watch them when they are alone or when they meet that very person they are comfortable with, you would be surprised. BTW, if only some parents know what their 'good girl' does at school

Hmmmm. Thinking about this . . .

[AdeFemi]

You are only making assumptions here. @bolded, what if the opposite is the reality? What other assumption are going to make?

What opposite is you saying about? That the girl told you that more than once? If that is what you are asking about, trust me it doesn't change anything of the fact that you have spent half of your productive life thinking about what a girl that you don't even litter close to her stray thoughts said in passing. I hope you have not started catching feelings, because you are next in line for a mannerless breakfast. Believe me, she will serve you hot.

What am I even saying? Just tell me what opposite you are asking about before I continued

[JustWise]

The question should be aside hookups, where can one find a good girl? Is it the church where most of them sleep with the choir master? Or the mosque where the alfas smash them in their long hijabs? Is it in the bank where they fvck their way to the top? Is it POS attendants that are low key hookup girls? Is it online where every single girl is a hook up girl? Is it in universities, again bunch of hookup girls.

@admin I’m serious, if you're out there looking for a serious relationship..this is the question you should be asking.

[Homachi]

Someone told me that, true. But that doesn't mean I admire her or whatever it is you mean by that word.

We are not kids here. There's no how you would create a topic about what someone told if it was just anyone. Don't try to hide it. It is not. This "Someone" must be someone you really admire and likely thinking about for a relationship. Whether she said it once, or twice is not my business. My point is, stop trying to hide what is not hidden. We already know the truth. So there is no need to be cowardly about your feelings. It's not a crime. And no one is beating you for it!!

If you can create a topic for it, that means. . .....

I will just pause here.

[Whitrock]

@Whitrock I'm wowed by your first line. But caught doing what?

Caught being bad. Being what know one knows them as. But which they are.

And it goes both ways. We are all bad in some ways.