How to disvirgin a woman

[Mngusuun]

I created a new account as this is somehow sensitive to me. My husband and I have been married for three days now. And we are both virgins. We tried having sex some time ago and its been so painful each time. It ends with him pulling out as i usually break down from the pains in tears. Right now, I'm so frustrated. He wants to have it, I want to have it, but we are both inexperienced and he's scared of putting me in any more pains.

This is something I have really looked forward to. I need help please. Is there a way to make things less painful for me? Something to make breaking my hymen easier?

[AlutaChampion]

@Nakupendah is this you?

[AdeFemi]

@Nakupendah is this you?

So there are still virgins in this world?

[AdeFemi]

@Mngusuun You should get KY gel. After applying, let him put in the cap first. Then repeat the process again tomorrow. Patience is key here, as you both are first timers Before the next three days he would be able to penetrate.

[AlutaChampion]

So there are still virgins in this world?

I thought am d only one shocked

[Mngusuun]

@Mngusuun You should get KY gel. After applying, let him put in the cap first. Then repeat the process again tomorrow. Patience is key here, as you both are first timers Before the next three days he would be able to penetrate.

Is it a drug?

[AdeFemi]

It's a gel. In a tube, just like toothpaste. Just go to any pharmacy or supermarket and ask for it. Apart from easing penetration, it will help to lubricate both organs.

[Whitrock]

This is something I have really looked forward to. I need help please. Is there a way to make things less painful for me? Something to make breaking my hymen easier?

Do tell him to take it gently and slowly. It won't happen in one day. With continuous effort, your hymen will gradually open up to take in his length and breadth. One else thing, make up your mind that it's going to happen, and try to endure.

There is pain everywhere. Not just in the breaking of hymens

[Whitrock]

So there are still virgins in this world?

I thought am d only one shocked

[JustWise]

First off, you don't disvirgin a woman, you deflower her, and secondly he will need to use his finger on you bcos if u want immediate penetration, you must be ready for the pains.

His finger won't deflower you the first time, especially if you are a young girl. Fingering before penetrating a virgin is just to lubricate and widen the hole a bit temporarily.

The finger is too tiny to vandalize that pipeline. Let him give you a nice pre-intimacy, make you wet and want him, then rub some oils on his d!ck.

Only the cap need to penetrate first, he should keep fvcking with his cap, and gradually and slowly slide the whole pen!s inside.

Once that is done, he should not move his waist until after a few seconds. And then start moving in and out slowly. If blood comes out, let him pull out and clean your pvssy surface. The blood inside will help lubricate it more.

One round is enough for the start and endeavour to sex again in a fees days time so that the pain goes quick and your virg!nal becomes free.


Not all holes vomit blood on the first time. Just if yours happen to be among them, he should not think you were pretending.

[AlutaChampion]

@JustWise you are a grandmaster

[AlutaChampion]

So there are still virgins in this world?

Speechless

[Mngusuun]

@Mngusuun You should get KY gel. After applying, let him put in the cap first. Then repeat the process again tomorrow. Patience is key here, as you both are first timers Before the next three days he would be able to penetrate.

We are done now. We couldn't get that ky gel, so the pharmacistt gave us something else. Thank you so much.

[Mngusuun]

This is something I have really looked forward to. I need help please. Is there a way to make things less painful for me? Something to make breaking my hymen easier?

Do tell him to take it gently and slowly. It won't happen in one day. With continuous effort, your hymen will gradually open up to take in his length and breadth. One else thing, make up your mind that it's going to happen, and try to endure.

There is pain everywhere. Not just in the breaking of hymens

Thank you so much. And your last line had us laughingb

[Mngusuun]

@JustWise Thank you so much for the breakdown. I was not cool with the fingering thing though, but we are past that now. Just to say, i am not cool with some of the words you used in your guide. Its demeaning. But thanks all the same

[Mngusuun]

So there are still virgins in this world?

Yes, i was.

[Mngusuun]

Thanks everyone for the help. It went a long way.

[Annie]

Thanks everyone for the help. It went a long way.

My congratulations to you

[JustWise]

@JustWise Thank you so much for the breakdown. I was not cool with the fingering thing though, but we are past that now. Just to say, i am not cool with some of the words you used in your guide. Its demeaning. But thanks all the same

Don't worry about the fingering. You'll get use to it. That's how most of the virgins I've sexed react. Give them some few days, and they come begging for it. Anyways, let me know when you begin begging hubby for it. Don't be shy. Just PM.

I'm ignoring the last line because I hold you not one apology.

[JustWise]

@JustWise you are a grandmaster

You can say that again.

[JustWise]

My congratulations to you

That's all you can say! One of your gender was seeking help, and neither you or your gang of feminists came to her aid. You should be hiding your face as @Homachi is already doing.

[Annie]

That's all you can say! One of your gender was seeking help, and neither you or your gang of feminists came to her aid. You should be hiding your face as @Homachi is already doing.

I wonder if there's a doctor here to recommend a sleeping pill for you

[Homachi]

@JustWise who ever says I was hiding? I have been away from here so stop feeling like you won a trophy.

[Homachi]

doing.

I wonder if there's a doctor here to recommend a sleeping pill for you

He really does need one. @admin when are we having a sexuality forum before @JustWise turns here upside down?

[AlutaChampion]

doing.

I wonder if there's a doctor here to recommend a sleeping pill for you

He really does need one. @admin when are we having a sexuality forum before @JustWise turns here upside down?

[admin]

He really does need one. @admin when are we having a sexuality forum before @JustWise turns here upside down?

Who else is thinking something like this?

[JustWise]

@JustWise who ever says I was hiding? I have been away from here so stop feeling like you won a trophy.

We are saying just the same thing. You saw this post and you decided not to log in for a long time till there was a reply.

[AdeFemi]

He really does need one. @admin when are we having a sexuality forum before @JustWise turns here upside down?

Who else is thinking something like this?

Not just a sexuality forum, but also one for webmasters and bloggers. Everyone should not be in the general forum.

[admin]

@AdeFemi but the general forum is for everyone

[Homachi]

He really does need one. @admin when are we having a sexuality forum before @JustWise turns here upside down?

Who else is thinking something like this?

I support this motion. It should be hidden and not come up among the recent topic though

[Homachi]

We are saying just the same thing. You saw this post and you decided not to log in for a long time till there was a reply.

In one sentence just tell me what you feel like now.

[AdeFemi]

@AdeFemi but the general forum is for everyone

That does not remove the need for a sexuality forum. If there are teens coming here, it makes it so important.

[Nakupendah]

@Nakupendah is this you?

So there are still virgins in this world?

Of course there are still virgins. And they will always be.

[AdeFemi]

If you mean those ones from 0 to 7 years old, I agree. There will always be virgins. Anything higher, you are wrong @Nakupendah

[Homachi]

If you mean those ones from 0 to 7 years old, I agree. There will always be virgins. Anything higher, you are wrong @Nakupendah

The first thing you should understand is that not every one is as loose as your sisters. Once you understand this, your life begins to have some meaning.

[Annie]

The first thing you should understand is that not every one is as loose as your sisters. Once you understand this, your life begins to have some meaning.

So apt.

[AdeFemi]

If you mean those ones from 0 to 7 years old, I agree. There will always be virgins. Anything higher, you are wrong @Nakupendah

The first thing you should understand is that not every one is as loose as your sisters. Once you understand this, your life begins to have some meaning.

You can't make a comment without name-calling. Clap for yourself.

[Nakupendah]

@AdeFemi you are a issue of pot calling kettle black. Accusing someone of your own guilt