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I am having sleepless nights. My husband and I had been trying hard to have a child for years been trying to have a child for 7 years but have been unsuccessful despite numerous medical procedures.
Some three months ago, I happened to go for an old school reunion where I met my high school boyfriend. We spent some time drinking and talking about the good old days and ended up spending the night together.
I realized I was pregnant about a month after and out of guilt told my mum about it. She's asked me to keep it a secret from both men and continue with my husband as though it was his.
The issue is that my ex is half South Sudanese 🇸🇸, half Uganda while both my husband and I are very dark in complexion. I'm now afraid that when I finally give birth, the baby's colour will expose me.
I also don't want to do anything to the baby after waiting for such a long time!
What advice will you give to me?
What advice will you give to me?
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Juba
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
I'm speechless here
Questions about the future are pointless because this is the future you spoke of three hours ago in the past and nobody will read this until the future from right now. Focus on right now, figure out what you need to do the job now, and learn it.
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JustWise
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
Tell him a good Samaritan helped him 
, boom! Leave him to sort it out 
. I think I have helped.
But just one day the child will realize it.
Btw, how come you and Hubby is very dark?
, boom! Leave him to sort it out 
. I think I have helped. But just one day the child will realize it.
Btw, how come you and Hubby is very dark?
You want money right, bitch? Well; I need your glory. I want your star. I want every atom of glory you were born with. I want it all. I'm going to take your glory while you enjoy my money.
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David
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
Go to the real father of the child. Don't make your husband super excited with a lie. it wouldn't be of good results.
Tell him the truth now and leave.
Tell him the truth now and leave.
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Whitrock
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
Just be honest. Tell him the baby doesn't belong to him. It's normal.
If you quote me and i did not reply, please understand that it was deliberate. I must have analyzed it, and concluded that it was not worth a split nucleus of my time. No apologies.
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Whitrock
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
Where are you from?
If you quote me and i did not reply, please understand that it was deliberate. I must have analyzed it, and concluded that it was not worth a split nucleus of my time. No apologies.
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AdeFemi
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
You better go back to your Ugandan guy. It's really hard to make a south Sudanese child secret especially dinkas, He/she will be tall and that's the only identity for Dinkas and Nuer.
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AdeFemi
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Re: What advice will you give to me?
She is likely a South Sudanese. They are usually very dark and tall
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