Dear ladies,
We need to talk.
What is this stinking disposition of waiting to be provided for?
You position yourself to receive and the last thing that comes to your mind is how you can give in your relationship.
This needs to stop.
You have a need but you are waiting for your partner to provide that need for you.
Is anything wrong with your hands? Are you going to stop existing if you make your own money and SPEND it?
You are invited to a date and he must cover your transportation cost? Why sell yourself so cheap?
Just so you know, the earth will not collapse if you pay for the meal.
Who has done this to us?
This sense of entitlement is the reason many of us would rather engage our bodies than our brains.
Speaking of which, you have wrongly believed that your touch is all a man needs. Real men are not after what’s between your legs. They are no longer after the soft tissues on your chest.
Real men are on the look-out for ladies who can initiate and sustain intelligent conversations!
A lady that has fine matter in between her ears.
Why would a man start a conversation with a supposed ‘fine girl’ and you are just talking off point?
You are in a relationship and you don’t care about the progress of his business as long as he’s providing.
Have you ever made a suggestion that could be considered useful?
Or is it all about your body and good food?
For your information, you will not be this physically appealing in the next 50 years. So, invest in yourself so much so that the first thing a man notices about you is your VALUE!
Do away with that parasitic posture of always being the receiver and learn to give!
Buy him gifts.
Send him lunch from his favourite restaurant.
SPEND YOUR MONEY ON HIM!
You will not die.
By the way, making your own money and getting what you want at will, takes money out of the top reasons you’d say yes to a guy.
Real men appreciate women who are independent and not parasites.
Whether you are in a relationship or not, work to be able to afford the life that you desire.
Stop waiting for ‘Him’ to supply all your needs; He is NOT Jehovah Jireh your provider.
I just hope you take this seriously and make amends.
Kindest regards,
Chinaza Favour
That lady next door.
