I'm starting to like your father. Mine was the opposite, and what we always wished we had. Anytime, he comes home, everything becomes quiet. Like a grave yard.

It's so sad your father had to go on like that. Was it an accident?

And I'm also surprised they allowed you stay around. As his most loved, me thinking they should know the pains would go deeper.

[quote=Ennis post_id=1114 time=1653320324 user_id=70]



I will want my death to be without pains to those left behind. No crying, no frowns. Sometimes, I think a good death should be one without pain. One in which those remaining on earth have no need to cry.

Oh, forgive me! I just needed to ease this pain somewhere.
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Hmmmmm
We all have pains [mention]Ennis[/mention]. I tried to stop myself from remembering how Father died. Sure I don't know how exactly I would like to die. But I surely don't want to die like that.

He died with his eyes open, and blood popping from his mouth. We were all around him. Mother, siblings, and me the youngest. Father was my favorite person. My confidant. As the last born, I was worth the other children. Orr so he made me feel. Our relationship continued even though my journey to Uni. From him, I learnt sex education. From him, I learnt how to aact like a lady. Our friendship was so that I confided in him about my first crush, the guys wooing me.

Once, I told him about a CourseMate I like, and he advised me to ask him out. The other time I told him about a guy who broke my heart, and he told me that those who we like will not always like us. And it's no fault of mine. He was my relationship adviser. I guess that's why I didn't give in to peer pressure at school.

He kept on muttering my name as his spirit left the body. It's been my most saddest memory. Most times when am bored or feel lonely, I miss him all the more. If he was still here, these feelings won't come close.

We all have pains [mention]Ennis[/mention]. It's just no one is talking. And we are all pretending okay.

In many ways my mum had a “good death”. She died in my arms at home, with my dad and brother holding her hands. We had spent the previous two weeks constantly by her side, loving and laughing, talking and touching, holding her tight and letting her go. But, as her daughter, it was a terrible death.

To be honest, I really cant say how I would want to die. Even though I been thinking about that since my mother's death. But I won't want to die by accident, or sickness, or even with regrets. Sometimes, I question if my mum really had a good death, or its just me trying to salt my pains.

I will want my death to be without pains to those left behind. No cryimg, no frowns. Sometimes, I think a good death should be one without pain. One in which those remaining on earth have no need to cry.

Oh, forgive me! I just needed to ease this pain somewhere.

[quote=Whitrock post_id=1081 time=1652283023 user_id=51]

You're married already,?
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Yes I'm married. Do you have a problem with that?

I don’t mean for that to be quite so depressing—only that if I keel over eight minutes from now, I won’t be around to have any kind of negative feelings about my death.
The idea of non-consciousness and non-existence is a comfort to me, the same way heaven is to spiritual people.

I want to be around for a while longer, but I wouldn’t have the capacity to be upset if I weren’t.
@admin

[quote=Whitrock post_id=1081 time=1652283023 user_id=51]

You're married already,?
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Is something wrong if she is married already?

I can't say for now. But I'm sure I definitely won't want to die like that man in the picture.

[quote=Nakupendah post_id=1069 time=1652263502 user_id=126]
My death doesn’t have to be painless and I’d like to know it was coming. I would rather die after my husband, or at the same time; I would worry too much about him. I would also like to be sure my kids are at least on the road to a healthy adulthood.
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You're married already,?

My death doesn’t have to be painless and I’d like to know it was coming. I would rather die after my husband, or at the same time; I would worry too much about him. I would also like to be sure my kids are at least on the road to a healthy adulthood.

[quote=Koffi post_id=1062 time=1652247896]
I don’t care when I die, but I want it to be sudden. I don’t want time to anticipate, I don’t want to have to try to come to terms with my own mortality, and I don’t want to have to say goodbye to anyone. I just want to be living, and then suddenly not be living anymore.
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Won't that be depressing?

I don’t care when I die, but I want it to be sudden. I don’t want time to anticipate, I don’t want to have to try to come to terms with my own mortality, and I don’t want to have to say goodbye to anyone. I just want to be living, and then suddenly not be living anymore.

You should start by telling us how you would like to die [mention]admin[/mention] don't be cowardly :twisted:

[quote=Homachi post_id=1044 time=1652068648 user_id=54]
@Annie Has he ran off?
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When will you stop stalking me :?: :?:

[mention]Annie[/mention] Has he ran off?

[quote=Homachi post_id=1038 time=1651765251 user_id=54]
:geek:
One, that image is too large. Compress it.

Two, you are shaking a very delicate and expensive table. So start by telling us how you would love to die.

Be a true leader for once. Lead from the front. By example.

Who's with me on this??
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You're making sense

:geek:
One, that image is too large. Compress it.

Two, you are shaking a very delicate and expensive table. So start by telling us how you would love to die.

Be a true leader for once. Lead from the front. By example.

Who's with me on this??

Every day, we are faced with more than a thousand ways to die, and each day we survive leads us to a potential ahead. We all will die one day. It is just a lucky day until the D-day. Are you prepared for it??

Accepted, this is not a very popular topic! But let's take it that you were given the privilege of choice, and your answer makes the decision of how you take your last breath on earth. .

So let's talk, how would you like to die?